Manners: A modern field guideGood manners are simply codified kindness, and being in possession of them enhances the quality of your everyday life and that of the people around you. At home and abroad, Debora and Kay have done the fieldwork, made the mistakes, and committed enough embarrassing faux pas for two lifetimes, in the hope that you dont have to. Illustrations by Denise Dorrance Good manners aren't about cutlery, codes or cleverness they're about kindness. Writers Kay