Words Kids Need to Hear: To Help Them Be Who God Made Them to BeWords matter. The right words, shared frequently and in a variety of ways, do make a difference. This guide from Willow Creek equips parents and childrens workers to use words to build up the hearts of elementary age children that result in closer parent child relationships and help pave a path toward a relationship with God. Words matter. Words can build up, or words can tear down. As parents and church leaders, do we use our words well? Words Kids